The 3 Biggest Mistakes To Avoid When Trying To Stop Your Dog From Jumping On People

  • Pin It

  • Pin It

The 3 Biggest Mistakes To Avoid When Trying To Stop Your Dog From Jumping On People

stop dog from jumping on people, how to stop your dog from jumping on people, dog jumping on people, dog jumps on peopleDogs that jump up is a HUGE problem!

Ironically I LIVE WITH ONE!!!

Let me explain, before you think I am completely crazy!  After all, why would a dog trainer admit to living with a problem jumper?

Actually, he is mostly my brother’s dog and I am not always in charge of his training.  The kids let him jump, my brother lets him jump, my brother’s wife lets him jump; but he has learned not to jump on me!

Why?

Because I avoid these 3 simple mistakes to make sure that I stop my dog from jumping up:

1.  Yelling

Yelling doesn’t work.  It is a waste or your time and breath.

Poignantly, yelling doesn’t work for much when you are talking about dog training.

It may work on your children, but in most cases (unless you are willing to back hand your dog or inflict sincere pain) yelling incites excitement.

Dogs often don’t know how to deal with our anger when they are already excited.

Here they are excited to see us, excited we are home, trying to communicate something, or trying to play with us and we yell.

Yelling confuses dogs.

Again, they are excited and we seem angry?

So, in an effort to appease us, they often get more excited or agitated and confused and jump on us more or show other inappropriate behaviors like nipping.

Imagine being in love with someone, sincerely missing them for what seems like forever (months) and then having them meet you with indifference and anger.  Would you be confused or hurt?  Would you try to cheer them up or change their mind?

Your dog doesn’t understand, don’t waste your time yelling at him, which will simply make his behavior worse and will inevitably make you angrier.

2.  Kicking

stop dog from jumping on people, how to stop your dog from jumping on people, dog jumping on people, dog jumps on people

Kicking or kneeing is another choice that will, almost certainly, confuse your dog.

I know that some will claim that it has worked for them in the past, but not only is kicking barbaric it often doesn’t work unless there is significant pain associated with it on several occasions.

And, who really wants to kick and hurt their dog?

Much less, who wants to ask other people to kick and hurt their dog?

That is certainly not the way that I want to train!

I don’t want my dog to fear me or other people.

And, really it is as simple as that.

But it also only works for people who are willing to do that to your dog.

How many 3-year-olds are going to kick your dog?  How many visitors?  Is that really what you want your dog to learn?

I think we have all tried these techniques, yelling, kneeing, grabbing their feet till they are uncomfortable; but these all rely on “WAITING FOR THE DOG TO JUMP” instead of stopping the dog from jumping up from the beginning.

 

3.  Turning Away

I know, I know – you didn’t expect that one on the list!

Many people are told to just turn their back when their dog or another dog jumps on them.  And, I will concede that sometimes I do this with other people’s dogs for a short time until I can find another tactic, but it still doesn’t usually work.

Again it may have worked for a small handful of dogs, but not the majority.

Jumping is a Self-Rewarding Behavior

Let that sink in for a minute…

Jumping is a self-rewarding behavior, so to some degree it doesn’t matter how much screaming, kicking, smacking, ignoring or turning you try to do; your dog is getting something out of jumping on you.

His brain fills with oxytocin and serotonin as soon as he gets next to you and touches you.  This also happens when you touch him, but if you don’t do it fast enough he figures he can just jump into your space and onto you.

He doesn’t mean any harm, really.

He is a dog, and dogs aren’t born knowing and understanding our human rules and guidelines.  They require teaching!

  • They don’t understand that it hurts sometimes when they jump.
  • They don’t understand how dangerous it is to jump on toddlers or the elderly.
  • They don’t understand when you are dressed up and you don’t want your nylons ripped.
  • They especially don’t understand when you are inconsistent!!!

And, turning away from them just makes jumping more of a game.

He jumps, you turn, he jumps again… this goes on and on and whereas it isn’t fun for you; and you hope that he is learning, the truth is that he is a dog and he is having a good time.

Turning away is like playing a game of keep away.

Dogs LOVE keep away!

 

2 Things That Help

 

#1  Reward a dog with four feet on the floor!

In order to teach a dog our rules and guidelines, we must teach them what behaviors we like.stop dog from jumping on people, how to stop your dog from jumping on people, dog jumping on people, dog jumps on people

People spend so much time telling dogs what NOT to do, that they rarely think about teaching their dogs what TO DO instead!

I reward my puppies for lying down on the floor at my feet, or sitting, or even just keeping all four feet on the ground.

In the beginning, I reward the puppy or new dog before they get an opportunity to jump.

I make sure that I have excellent, tasty rewards!  For instance, your dog might rather jump on you than have a stale dog biscuit.  I use chicken breast, cheese or liver to reinforce good behavior.

Once my dog learns to keep all four on the floor, I change the criteria to sitting or (even better) lying down and waiting for me to come to him for affection.

If jumping doesn’t bring petting or affection, but keeping four feet down brings treats AND affection a dog will learn quickly to stay off of you and your guests!

#2  Leash for Control

If you are still struggling and have inadvertently rewarded jumping behaviors, you might need some help.

When I am working with a chronic jumper be it puppy or adult dog, I utilize a leash in the house.

It doesn’t have to be a long leash, it can just be a tab leash, but a leash gives me control of my dog’s body and space.

If my dog jumps up, I can simply and quietly pluck him off of my body.

Again, I don’t yell or shout commands… I don’t want to reverse the affects and make this rewarding, I simply very quietly remove the dog and wait for an opportunity to reward the dog for four on the floor or sitting.

Leashes are not just for taking your dog outside for a walk.

Leashes help us teach our dogs and gain control of other bad behaviors too!

This is Critical

The most critical piece?

Consistency!!!

You must be consistent!

This is why the puppy at my house has struggled.  He can jump on some but not others.

He has learned that if he sits or lies down he will be rewarded by me; but I am sure it is confusing for him that he can jump on some people but not others.

Be fair and be consistent and you will sculpt the dog of your dreams!

 

ic-for-jumping-up

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

There are 22 Comments

  1. Donna Spak says:

    Thanks for the information, how do I train my husband to stop letting our pets jump??? Lol.

    [Reply]

    Minette Reply:

    I only do husband training with shock collars 😉

    [Reply]

  2. Thanks for the helpful advice.
    My 15 mo. Terrier jumps. barks,bites & gets visious.
    I’ve tried several things, nothing seems to work.

    [Reply]

  3. THANK YOU!!!!
    I have my second Berger Picard that jumps on me even if I’ve only been gone for 30 seconds. I am consistent with what I do. I just learned that I ‘ve been consistently doing the wrong things. I have gotten her to sit after she bounces on me a bit by never touching her until she sits down. Then I praise her profusely for being a good girl. Bacon now goes in my pocket and I will report back

    [Reply]

    Minette Reply:

    be careful with bacon, it can cause pancreatitis, instead might I suggest boiled chicken or liver :)

    [Reply]

  4. Elizabeth says:

    I’ve made all three mistakes. In fact, the class to which I took my puppy told us to turn away and ignore him – it never worked.

    [Reply]

  5. Catherine Tucker says:

    Thank you for all of your training treasures. I have seen dramatic, positive changes in my pets behavior.
    I love your philosophy on dog companionship. I enjoy my dogs so much more and they are happier knowing what I expect.
    I have actually tried working with another dog trainer and his methods frightened ME as a person, I can’t imagine how my dog felt. I don’t want my pet to obey me out of fear nor do I want to “control” him. “We” just want
    to be able to understand each other better and live together happily. I can see you are also a dog lover.

    [Reply]

  6. Thank you for this. We have heard all the advice…turning our backs and telling our guests to turn their backs. It’s really embarrassing when you can tell your guest does not appreciate your dog’s feet on their nice, cashmere sweater! Another one? step into their space. This works sometimes but only for a short time. I think in my case the leash idea may be the best one, at first especially. And consistency? My husband enjoys having our dog get excited when he gets up or comes home from work, so this creates a major problem for me and our guests. I’m going to show him your post. Thanks again!

    [Reply]

  7. Audrey Larsson says:

    11Neat advice..makes sense. Now to put it to work.

    [Reply]

  8. Ellen Hilderbrand says:

    Thank you for this tidbit. I was doing this correctly, I just needed to understand why. My dog loves to be petted and be right next to me. So, knowing how important this is to him I know I am on the right track.

    [Reply]

  9. Bonnie McKim says:

    Thanks for this great info. I need to stop yelling and start asking for the desired behavior and reward it.

    [Reply]

  10. Sharon Spinney says:

    Thanks this really helps. I have a jumper and have been turning my back, she also is counter surfer stealing everything from paper to food even utensils. Any suggestions?

    [Reply]

    Minette Reply:

    Leash and teach the dog manners

    [Reply]

  11. James Sutton says:

    My alias are 8 and 12 months. They are constant jumpers. Is it the breed or alowed behavior. Is has become a big problem.

    [Reply]

  12. Susan Hutchison says:

    Excellent suggestions

    [Reply]

  13. Claire Bridges says:

    Wow – this a fabulous article. Really helpful and can be applied to so many aspects of dog training. It just makes perfect sense. Thank you!

    [Reply]

  14. Lizz says:

    Thank you for the great advice. Turning my back has never worked for us, but I hadn’t considered either of the other options.
    I’ll start those immediately.
    REALLY love your articles. They’realways straight forward and not confusing. Also as I have 3 heathens, 2 under 12 months, your suggestions always workfor me and are a good reminder for my older Spoo to set the example.
    Happy Thanksgiving!

    [Reply]

  15. Carol Black says:

    I have a very small dog and she is a jumper!! I have found the leash to an excellent tool. I appreciate this article however as I learned some new things about the “why” in her behavior. Thank you!!

    [Reply]

  16. Donna Villers says:

    Thanks For the input.

    [Reply]

  17. JenB says:

    Thank you for your helpful advice. Slowly getting my dog to stop jumping and any additional advice will help.

    [Reply]

  18. Jim says:

    Try taking a quick step backwards so that your dog misses your body altogether. Then, immediately put him in the “sit” position, and reward with a treat, praise and petting. He will learn to “cut to the chase” and sit quickly because this is where he is rewarded.

    [Reply]

  19. KVK says:

    My dog jumps up on a door. Since he’s on the other side from me, how do I stop this?

    [Reply]

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *