How To Train Your Dog Without Touching It!
I was on the phone with a client just the other day who was having somewhat of a familiar problem with her puppy. She is becoming the entertainment and chew toy in their relationship. She called because she has scratches, bite marks and lesions and was fed up with her puppy’s bad behavior.
Puppies play with each other with their teeth. Dogs don’t have hands and opposable thumbs to hold, throw objects or play with things. They aren’t able to use their hands to explore their environments.
Puppies are born deaf and blind, they do not begin to hear or see until they are about 2 weeks old. They learn use their mouths, shortly after they are born, to explore their environment. As they grow they are constantly learning about their environment by biting and mouthing. They bite their littermates, they mouth on things in their environment, and they even bite their mother.
It is essential that puppies stay with their mother until at least 8 weeks of age so that she can begin to teach them about bite inhibition. When a pup bites mom too hard, mom is swift to bite back and teach the pup about the inappropriateness of rough play. Without mom’s help during this crucial period in a puppy’s life, they often don’t learn about bite inhibition and frequently develop into hard biters and bullies.
It is normal for dogs to bare their teeth, nip, bite, and growl at their littermates and playmates. Often puppies play hard or soft depending on their playmate. I have seen dogs throw each other around by their necks, growling and body slamming each other but doing so in play and never breaking skin.
Dogs can only learn to play with other dogs by playing with other appropriate non-aggressive dogs. I think dog play is a crucial behavior for puppies to learn when they are young! Older dogs will teach them the appropriateness of how hard to bite, and young dogs can teach them how fun it is to play rough sometimes.
Although it is normal for a puppy to explore its environment using its teeth and mouth, it is inappropriate for them to put their teeth on humans and they must be taught not to do this under any circumstances.
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Imagine having a 2 year old child and never teaching them manners or allowing him to get any exercise, but giving him everything he wants! I can’t imagine such a situation for a child, but we often create this situation for our dogs. Our dogs need just as much interaction, teaching, rules, and exercise as our children!
The woman I was talking with on the phone was physically disabled and confined to a wheel chair. Her pup had been biting and mouthing since she brought her home at 6 weeks and now the pup was 5 months old. Because the problem had not been dealt with sooner, it has become a behavioral habit and will be harder to break. This is the only relationship the dog knows. I believe that, unfortunately, all of the afore mentioned, problems are factors for her.
Although her intentions were admirable, she has set their relationship up for failure. Many dogs end up in the local shelter at this stage.
She needs to change the dynamics of their relationship and become more of a parent/owner and less of a littermate/servant. Although it is a small breed dog, she can still be taught basic and advanced obedience. And, although her owner is in a wheelchair, she can still provide exercise! She can exercise the dog next to her chair and can even take the dog to a day care or play group during the day to help wear her out.
Play groups can be great because you can drop your dog off, get some errands done or some much needed rest and you can pick up a tired dog at the end of the day or a few hours. Your dog can learn how to use his/her teeth while playing with other dogs. It is normal for dogs to bare their teeth and bite and shake one another with their mouths, just be sure that the staff is educated and responsible and ask to watch a few play groups so that you can see the staff and dog/dog interaction.
It is never too late to teach your dog appropriate behavior when it comes to using his/her teeth. Develop a no tolerance rule with humans and provide ample training and exercise and if you can allow your dog to play with other dogs as a way to use their teeth in an appropriate environment with other playful well behaved dogs.
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I had this exact problem with a couple of Golden Retriever Puppies that came to me as a result of someone I knew being frustrated. The pups had been separated too early I expect. I was able to curb this behavior by beging to play with the dog and then doing 2 things. When the play got too exciting for the dog, I would stop it, make him settle before we would proceed. With a metal glove I let him nip my hand once. When he did that I “yelped” at the top of my lungs in a similar manner to a pup. The behaviour quickly abated once he realized it was wrong and once he accepted me as leader. It took several sessions to get this across but it does work. patience, patience, patience…
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@ December 13th, 2010 at 19:11The last three words you wrote “patience, patience, patience…” speak volumes. Time and time again we see animals suffer, loose their homes, sometimes even their lives because of humans impatience. Look at some of the tags on animals up for adoption where it sometimes states “how long have you had animal prior to surrender” and often the replies are 4days, maybe a week and often not listed at all or untruthful. Many people don’t give anything a chance. I believe good things (relationships, outcomes)require time and you get out of it what you put into it. Thanks for the very much needed reminder John.
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@ May 12th, 2011 at 18:00Thanks…so much for this info. We got our Schnauser puppy at 6 weeks..She is now 5 months. Have had other pups at 6 weeks with no problem. This one is a rrreeeaaalll exception. We are on the go quite often,and I have been sick for several weeks and she doesn’t get enough daily excercise…She has bitten me quite often, but this is a lot of help. I will continue to try. I love her so much and I hope to be able to break her.
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Mary T. Del Buono Reply:
October 19th, 2011 at 7:27 pm
I have a puppy who was biting us…and my feet toes…do not like toes touched much less bitten…now I wear shoes…and I don’t get down to pet him…stopped playing pull with the toys that was dumb on my part…nipped me in the crook of my finger on Sunday…I screamed…he hurt me so much…blood was a gusshing…I will be walking him more…now that it is cooler down here…but I don’t like that agressive dogs who live next door (the mom and pop of our puppy…) very hard the mom was too young I think…did not want to nurse him…so we took puppy too soon…he is an only puppy no sibblings…so he did not learn the non nipping…stuff…they let their do nip them (the mom) they visit our puppy and it starts again…driving me nutttyttyyy…I keep our puppy on a leash they don’t keep the mom and pop on a leash…they run over here…uggh…she nipped him good today…good thing I did not see it my husband was sitting the dog…ughh…not easy when a mom and pop live next door…is all I can say…
I hope you can let me know about your schnauzer…mine is so cute…but I want him to behave well…worries me…give me some hope if you have the time…thanks
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i have a standard poodle,1.5 yrs old. generally a good dog and he gets 3 walks a day. he still occ, leaps up when we are walking and mouths, not hard but it can hurt. he is not mean at all but it does hurt if he hits your hand. have tried yelling ouch, reprimanding him. behaviour has become much less frequent but want to stop it altogether! would it be worth putting the bitter apple on when he only does the behaviour maybe twice a day?
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Minette Reply:
May 17th, 2011 at 12:46 pm
I would try the other scenarios first, but if that is what I am left with…YES rather than be bitten, I would!
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Where do I get bitter apple…do I use an apple…is this a spray that can be bought…our schnauzer is a nipper dooogie…he is so cute … don’t like the nipping…he bites the leash when walking too…
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@ October 19th, 2011 at 19:31